No-one ever comes to marriage with the intention of divorcing. In fact you enter this dominion with the idea that you are the one, the chosen couple who will beat the odds. Its your love story that will stand the test of time. 

Everyone around you has high hopes for you and genuinely prays that, you, the couple, will find the answers that offer them the secret to long lasting committed compatible love. 

From experience this is for the rare few. 

For many post the wedding day, life follows a trajectory. If you don’t want to walk the beaten path. Then it takes a great deal of awareness to be present IN YOUR LIFE. I wish many of my clients knew before they signed their life away on autopilot. 

As most people don't come to the marriage consciously, the general storyline is about money, children, mortgage, bills, spending, expectation, lack of independence, spend more money, stress, worry, ill health, redundancies, losing employment, working away, promotions, time away and the amount time for joy and play becomes less and less. Once the anger turns to resentment,  and the laughter turns to silence. The atmosphere becomes oppressive and heavy. Everyone sits beneath the dark shroud weighted down hoping someone will cut the cloth and let in some light.

By the time the couple reach the end they are wrung out and spaced out. The autopragramming has led them to the inevitable gruesome end. 

Divorce

For many people it’s a blessing to FINALLY each this point and to make a decision that leads to liberation. Perhaps its taken years to get here and now that the decision has been made there is a sense of relief. It’s the right path for the couple. Its the right decision for the whole family and last but by no means least their sanity.

Divorce whilst a personal situation, is one where the extended families and of course friends feel it’s their prerogative to get involved and rein further terror with their views and opinions. Its isnt enough the at he couple are going through a deeply devastating journey the extending family are wading in with their personal view an opinion further ocmpounding the feelings of shame, embarrassment and guilt. 

The role of the extended family should be about offering support but instead people bring their fear and conditioning to the table. Divorce triggers people in lots of different ways. Other people’s emotions have no business being in your situation but due to the auto programming of society and community, couples are crippled by the overarching emotional states of the wider collective consciousness. 

But let’s be real a good divorce can be an amazing thing. For Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin it was FLOW. Their conscious uncoupling was the best example of what can happen when you both work together to become FREE. There is a conscious and radical acceptance.

A good divorce can have positive results on children. The idea that divorce must be hateful, angry, vengeful is an archaic way of moving forward. It can actually be compassionate. Kind and respectful.

A bad divorce can have serious health implications and cause long lasting damage to your being. 

A bad divorce can have decades of ramifications and impact your lineage generationally.  

In our amazing program  “Conscious Divorce Program we take our clients on a journey of discovery where they are supported through our amazing GRACE FORMULA. 

Divorcing with GRACE is the conscious pathway to true liberation.

We teach our clients HOW TO : 

Let go

Detach

Forgive

Accept 

Surrender 

Set boundaries 

Break patterns 

Master the mind

And move forwards with absolute Grace. 

We recognise that there are many divorces that occur within the one divorce. 

The separation of assets, money, physical items and organising the custody of the children (if you have them) is of course number one. .

The second is the emotional detachment.

Third but by no means least the Physical Release and processing all the lingering physical symptoms in the body. The letting go of the story and the creation of new possibilities. 

Fourth is co-exist / co-parent and co-create from a place of compassion. 

Get ready to meet the new YOU. There will so much expansion, there will be no going back to the old you.

We teach our clients about the importance of understanding boundaries, before creating strong ones with themselves and all those around. This level of protection is important for your healing and of course for your children’s adjustment and transition. These steps are vital in your own survival and certainly will play a role in the adulthood phase of these young beings.Otherwise the divorce is going to be a become a greater nightmare than what it is right now.

Divorce is simply the close of one chapter.

So if you are going through a divorce, a separation and your emotions are killing you. You don’t know where to turn. You feel stuck and the other person is just coming at you with paperwork, lawyers and solid hate. 

You are in the right place. We are going to walk through the tunnel of darkness together. This is a temporary moment. A must do, to become.

COURSES ARE COMING SOON.